Ep 15: Soft Skills: The Skills No One Teaches (but everyone needs)

Soft skills: everyone talks about them, few people define them, and even fewer get help building them. In this episode, Indra and Amanda dig into the nuanced world of interpersonal and emotional intelligence—the unspoken skills that make or break how we collaborate, lead, and show up at work.

From navigating conflict and giving feedback to facilitating meetings and reading the room, they explore why soft skills often surface in high-stakes moments... and why most training programs barely scratch the surface.

They share real talk on:

• Whether soft skills are innate or learned
• Why these abilities require practice, not just theory
• How to start small and build confidence in safe spaces
• And how to listen to podcasts, panels, or even reality shows with a soft-skills lens

 

This episode is a reminder that emotional intelligence isn’t fluff—it’s foundational. And like any skill, it can be trained, strengthened, and occasionally pulled in for emergency use.

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